no sex in the champagne room

To sort of ride the wave of my last post, let me let you in to another conversation I had recently. I was giving a lap dance to a guy who had been practically drooling over me at the stage - he had come over and interrupted while I was dancing for a woman and brought me over to his buddies who were having a stag party and tipped really well to keep me there. He asked if I did private dances, and was waiting for me by the steps to the stage when I got down from my set. So, as I'm giving this guy a lap dance, we have this conversation:

Guy: (as I'm dancing) Ugggh, this is hot.
Me: I'm glad you're enjoying yourself.
Guy: Do you do private dances?
Me: You mean champagne rooms? Yes. (I tell him the rates)
Guy: So, what happens in the champagne room?
Me: Mm, well, I'm going to be honest with you and tell you right up front, I don't have sex in the champagne room, I don't give head, I'm not letting you take your dick out. I don't want to set you up to be disappointed.
Guy: So don't set me up to be disappointed. (He offers me a price...) and let me take it all out.
Me: (trying to brush it off by being playful) No! Honey, you know I can't do that...
Guy: Come on, I've been a good customer. I hooked you up with a good group of guys, I tipped well...
Me: And I appreciate that, but I told you, I'm a good girl, I don't do that in the champagne room.
Guy: Come on, I give you (amount) you let me take it all out.
Me: You know I can't do that.
Guy: Sure you can.
Me: Honey, I told you. I'm a good girl. I don't do that. Please don't get me in trouble.

This goes on and on. After he finally gets the message that I'm not going to fuck him in the champagne room he starts asking me which girls will, and insists that I must know - and he only believes that I don't know when I explain that I'm new.

So, today I want to talk about the three phases I go through to get guys to back off of the pressure for sex. Sometimes, it makes me sad that I need this system, but the reality is, all the money is in champagne rooms, and there is a lot of fighting off advances in that venue. It goes like this:

1) I'm honest and I'm a "good girl" - I don't have sex in the champagne room - I mean, look at me! I wear a school girl skirt, I'm petite, I look young as hell - you can't ask me to do something like that! This is the, I'm too sweet and innocent for something naughty like that approach.

When that doesn't work, on to...

2) I'm new at this club, and I'm sweet - please don't get me in trouble with management. There are cameras in the champagne room (true) so we couldn't get away with it (false) - please don't get me fired! This is the, I totally would if I could, but I just can't - don't be offended it's not that I don't want you, approach.

Then, if that doesn't work, finally...

3) I said no. I'm not going to do it. You can stop pressuring me, or this session is over. This is the "bitch" approach - babe in control. I said no, if you don't let up, I'm walking away and taking the money you paid with me.